Nicola & Shayne

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19 February 2025

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OUR WEDDING

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Bride & Groom

Upon this shore we stand as one;
Two hearts entwined by fates declared.
Forever bound by sacred ties,
By sea and sky, our love ensnared.

Nicola Ward

On the 11th day of November 1993 this amazing, caring and kind human came into this world.

The best way to describe her would be…

“dictionary” Because she has brought meaning to my life.

Shayne Van As

This handsome man holds such a kind, caring and genuine soul that stuck so perfectly to my heart. 

I never thought I would ever be so lucky to be chosen to be a part of his dad jokes and gaming days. 

He is as close to perfect as anything in this world could get;
he is my home.

Our Story

Now this is a story all about how.

My life got flipped, turned upside down.

I’d like to take a minute; Just sit right there

I’ll tell you how I became the prince of a maiden so fare.

First meet

14 June 2021

Shayne: Onboard the Seabourn Odyssey during return to service I, while conducting training with the restaurant team noticed a quiet and shy young lady. Upon realizing just how rosy in the cheeks she became during public speaking (and how cute it made her look), she became my target for any public speaking. (Which she obviously fell in love with me for doing).

A couple nights later once she had been released from her Covid induced imprisonment, we bumped into each other on deck and struck up a conversation, the conversation flowed and flowed, she was just so kind, genuine and sweet that I was smitten and put in place my evil plan to make her mine….

Nicola: We met on Seabourn Odyssey for the return to service. Never in my dreams did I think I could feel so embarrassed being chosen to publicly speak so much by this man during our team trainings. As embarrassed as I was when we were doing our introductions around the room, Shayne being Shayne of course made quite the impression making everyone laugh at his “I’m single remark” to the whole team which only made me feel even more nervous to stand up.

I was released from my two-week isolation and a few of us all gathered on deck 10, Sky Bar for some drinks to celebrate freedom. Shayne and I bumped into each other, and the conversation kept flowing and I remember feeling those butterflies in my stomach and hoping I wouldn’t say anything stupid but as the night went on, I knew with him I could be my absolute awkward self. He was a kind, funny, caring gentleman, which was new to me, and the rest is history.

First date

16 June 2021

Our first date was in the crew mess, for their late night snack.

We were in our Pj’s when we went for a bite, which happened to be chicken wings (Nicola’s Favorite).

It was a massacre. We destroyed 4 plates full of chicken wings, ripping and tearing with our hands and teeth. Our plates looked like the elephant graveyard from the lion king movie, just with more bones.

Our faces and hands were covered in hot sauce and our bellies were so bloated we were as fat as a couple distillery pigs.

 

Looking at her in our disgustingly messy bliss, I knew I loved this woman.

Proposal

1 July 2023

Scotland is very rainy…

My master plan was to propose at a beautiful castle in the countryside in Scotland, but in hindsight I should have realized just how rainy Scotland can be in the height of summer…everyday that’s how much..

But then we went to visit my friend Nicolas in England and low and behold SUN!! There was no time to lose, while we were visiting numerous sights, I was frantically planning how we could do something and make it wow. Thoughts of a castle on a hill as the sun was setting… Beautiful, romantic, amazing…I found the perfect one, we arrived just before sunset!! LOCKED, CLOSED off to the public until further notice…

No mere gate could stop Nicolas and myself finding an opening for entry we announced as we climbed the hill around the castle which sole purpose was to keep intruders out once upon a time…

I dare say it was a fairly good design as the gate defeated us as we broke against the castle wall.

Nevertheless we found a quaint spot just outside the gate which was beautiful and still had a bit of castle for the backdrop… and I brought gin which makes Nicola happy.

 

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Location

De Uijlenes Wedding Venue, where love stories come to life amidst the beauty of nature